The rules of life(3)and (4)

Take an interest in the outside world(1)

You may be wondering why this rule is here and not in which the ones in the section about the world.Well, this one is about you.

Taking an interest in the outside world is developing you, rather than for the world's benefit. I'm not suggesting

You have to watch the news constantlt, but by reading, listening and talking, we keep abreast of what is happening.

Successful Rules players don't get blogged down by the minute of their own lives, they don't live in a tinny buble.

Make it your mission to know what 's going on in the world- in current events,

Music, fashion,science,movies, food, transport,even TV. They are able to hold a conversation on pretty well everything and anything

Because they are interested in what's going on.You don't necessarily have to own the latest everything

but you should have arough idea of what is changing, what's new and what's happening, both in your community

and on the other side of the world.

အျပင္ေလာက အေပၚ စိတ္၀င္စားပါ(၁)

ယခုစည္းမ်ဥ္းကုိ ကမၻာႏွင့္ သက္ဆုိင္သည့္ က႑တြင္ မထည့္ဘဲ ဤက႑တြင္ အဘယ္ေၾကာင့္ထည့္ထားသည္ကုိ သင္ စဥ္းစားေတြေ၀မိမည္။

သင္ႏွင့္ သက္ဆုိင္၍ ထည့္ထားျခင္းျဖစ္သည္။အျပင္ေလာကကုိစိတ္၀င္စားျခင္းသည္ သင္၏ပေတြးအေခၚမ်ား ဖြံ႔ၿဖြဳးလာသည့္ အက်ိဳးျဖစ္ထြန္းမည္။

ကမၻာႀကီးက အျမတ္ထြက္မွာမဟုတ္၊သင့္အား တီဗြီ အၿမဲမျပတ္ၾကည့္ရန္ အႀကံျပဳေနျခင္းမဟုတ္ပါ၊

ယေန႔ အျဖစ္အပ်က္မ်ားႏွင့္ ရင္ေဘာင္တန္းႏုိင္ေအာင္ စာဖတိျခင္း နားေသာတဆင္ျခင္း စကားေျပာဆုိေဆြးေႏြးျခင္းတုိ႔ ျပဳလုပ္ရန္သာျဖစ္သည္။

ေအာင္ျမင္ေသာ စည္းမ်ဥ္းလုူိက္နာ သူတုိ႔သည္ သူတုိ႔၏ က်ဥ္းေျမာင္းေသာ ဘ၀ႏြံထဲတြင္ နစ္ျမဳတ္ေနျခင္းမဟုတ္ပါ၊

ေသးငယ္သည့္ ေရဘူေဘာင္းတစ္ခုထဲတြင္လည္းမေနပါ။သင္သည္ ကမၻာႀကီးတြင္ ျဖစ္ပ်က္ေနသည္မ်ားကုိ သိျမင္ႏုိင္ရန္

အထူးတာ၀န္တစ္ရပ္အေနျဖင့္ ခံယူသတ္မွတ္ပါ၊ယေန႔ျဖစ္ရပ္မ်ား ေတးဂီတ ဖက္ရွင္ သိပၸံ ရုပ္ရွင္ အစားအေသာက္ သယ္ယူပုိ႔ေဆာင္ေရး

တီဗြီၾကည့္ျခင္း စသည္တုိ႔ အားလုံးတြင္ စိတ္၀င္စားပါ။အျပင္ေလာက အေၾကာင္းကုိ စိတ္၀င္စားသည့္ စည္းမ်ဥ္းလုိက္နာသူတုိ႔သည္

စကားစျမည္ ေျပာရာတြင္ မည္သည့္ အေၾကာင္းအရာမဆုိ ေျပာဆုိ ေဆြးေႏြးႏုိင္သည္။သင့္အေနျဖင့္

ယေန႔ အသစ္အဆန္းပစၥည္းမ်ား တစ္ခုမက်န္ ပုိင္ဆုိင္ႏုိင္ရန္ လုိ အပ္ခ်က္မရွိပါ။သုိ႔ေသာ္ သင့္၀န္းက်င္ႏွင့္ အျပင္ေလာက၏ေျပာင္းလဲမႈမ်ား

ဆန္းသစ္မႈမ်ား ျဖစ္ပ်က္မႈမ်ားကုိ အၾကမ္းဖ်ဥ္းသိထားဖုိ႕ေတာ့ လုိေပမည္။

Take an interest in the outside world(2)

And the benefits? Well, for starters, it makes you more interesting as a person and it also keep you young.I met an elderly woman in the post office

the other day who was going on about PIN numbers." Pin numbers, pin numbers, what do I want pin numbers at my age?" The short answer is that

of course she needs them, she cannot get her pension money without them.But it's more than that.It's terribly easy to sink into the " I 've never done this before,

I don't need to do it now mentality. If we do this ,we stand a good chance of really missing out.

အျပင္ ေလာကအေပၚ စိတ္၀င္စားပါ(၂)

ထုိသုိ႔ သိျခင္းမွ မည္သည့္ အက်ိဳးအျမတ္ရမည္နည္း၊အစကနဦးတြင္ပင္ သင္သည္ စိတ္၀င္းစားဖြယ္ရာပုဂၢိဳလ္တစ္ဦးျဖစ္လာမည္။စိတ္လည္းႏုပ်ိဳမည္။တေန႔က ကၽြန္ေတာ ္ စာတုိက္တြင္

အသက္ႀကီးႀကီး အမ်ိဳးသမီးတစ္ဦးႏွင့္ေတြ႕သည္။သူမက ကြ္ပ်ဴတာ ကုိယ္ေရးနံပါတ္မ်ားအေၾကာင္းညည္းတြားေနသည္။“ ဒီ ကြန္ပ်ဴတာ ကုိယ္ေရးနံပါတ္ေတြ အေၾကာင္းကုိပဲ ေျပာေနၾကတာပဲ၊

ငါ့ အသက္အရြယ္မွာ ဒီနံပါတ္ေတြက ဘာအက်ိဳးျပဳမွာလည္း” ဟုေျပာသည္။တုိတုိေျပာရလွ်င္ ထုိနံပါတ္ မရွိပါက သူမ၏ပင္စင္လစာေငြ ထုတ္ႏုိင္မည္ မဟုတ္ပါ။သင့္အေနျဖင့္

“ ငါ ဒါကုိ မလုပ္ဖူးဘူး၊အခုလုပ္ဖုိ႔လည္းမလုိဘူး” ဟူသည့္ စိတ္ဓါတ္မ်ိဳးကိန္းေအာင္းရန္ လြယ္ကူပါသည္။ထုိစိတ္ဓါတ္မ်ိဳး ရွိခဲ့ပါက သင္ ဆုံး႐ႈံးစရာမ်ားစြာရွိသည္။